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March 24, 2008
Guys' frequency
I was having heavy girl talk with my bestie today - Hid. It was heated as we try hard to derive a rational explanation for guys' psychology. For when it seems you are so in love with them, brace yourselves..but you will only end up in second place. No girls..not that they don't love you. They do. Lots. It's just that in their lives you ain't worth obsessing about. Not entirely..ever. Because in a guy's universe there is soccer, his mum, his friends, his career, his sleep time, his newpaper, n loads of other factors that do not significantly involve you.
Ouh no.. n it's not that you don't matter. You do..or so he claims. It's just that sometimes, you have to understand that he has other commitments other than you. And it is for this very reason, you feel inferior..but no...it's not that you haven't tried your best to address the issue. Countless times we have girlfriends..countless of times too have failed to drill the severity of our pain into their titanium brains. We are naggers they say...blaming us for pouring our hearts out on the most petty of issues. We are gossip mongers they say..when we confide in our girlfriends. But perhaps, these are the things that help us retain our sanity for being by their side all these while.
It is a man's world they say...Girls are too emotional to set records straight. "We give them our bodies in return for their hearts", Hid claimed..that too we fail to gain. As feminist as it sounds, this comment is going to end with a stand that we should all take guys with a pinch of salt. For all that truly matters, we can never penetrate a guys frequency and say, "Hey..what makes you think you're great anyway??"
Labels: ...what's with the attitude boyfriends
March 10, 2008
Do not take words so seriously
Especially those that would tear pieces of your heart
and leave a scar so deep on the one you love
I lurve u boyfriend..no matter what... :)
Labels: ...to : Khairul Fadzil...